"let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. and do not grieve the Holy Spirit of god, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice, and be kind to one another, even as god in christ forgave you." 

ephesians 4:29-32